tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012043996452330123.post3990534329012760885..comments2023-09-23T04:44:41.086-05:00Comments on the MS muse: My Lame Elevator ShameKaylahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01407273346397749707noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012043996452330123.post-64355927770520837032013-02-10T20:41:03.325-06:002013-02-10T20:41:03.325-06:00Great post, and I agree about the new picture! I w...Great post, and I agree about the new picture! I want to say it might help to think about how you wouldn't judge someone in your position, but that seems a cognitive solution that might not get at the source of your feelings, even though ideally it would. I do agree with Traci that most people are too busy worrying about their own appearance to give much thought to what others are doing. I hope somehow your feelings of shame can lessen over time. Sometimes solutions come to us when we least expect them. Gwennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7012043996452330123.post-20537144103062618262013-02-06T10:40:47.832-06:002013-02-06T10:40:47.832-06:00I don't think anyone would blame you for havin...I don't think anyone would blame you for having said "neurotic tendencies," even if they don't understand it! <br /><br />Very well written and something that I'm proud of you for putting out there, both for your own sake and for anyone who reads it! We all have to remember that we don't know what anyone else is going through and not sharing with the world, and also, that our own worries about what other people are thinking are completely unjustified! Most people are too busy thinking about how THEY appear to others, or about their own worries, to even notice what much else.<br /><br />Much love to one of the strongest people I know!<br /><br />ps. LOVE the new photo and image-link to TDQ!Tracihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11115367799606901901noreply@blogger.com